Activity-based dating for NYC

Stop sitting across
from strangers.
Do something.

ConnectAndDo matches you with someone, then drops you both into a real experience. Boxing. Salsa. Skydiving. Because you learn more in one round of sparring than ten cups of coffee.

Start matching
25%
More second dates
NYC
Launch city
All
Orientations welcome
Boxing
Salsa Dancing
Rock Climbing
Cooking Class
Skydiving
Pottery
Karate
Wine Tasting
Kayaking
Escape Room
Archery
Ice Skating
Boxing
Salsa Dancing
Rock Climbing
Cooking Class
Skydiving
Pottery
Karate
Wine Tasting
Kayaking
Escape Room
Archery
Ice Skating
How it works

Three steps. Zero awkward silences.

01

Match on vibe, not just looks

Tell us what you're into. Your borough. Your energy level. We match you with someone who's actually compatible, not just someone who swiped right on autopilot.

02

Pick your adventure (or don't)

Choose from curated activities near both of you, or hit "Surprise Me" and let ConnectAndDo plan the whole thing. Boxing in the Bronx. Salsa in SoHo. Your call.

03

Show up and do the thing

No more "so... what do you do?" staring at lattes. You're too busy throwing punches, learning footwork, or free-falling at 120mph to be awkward.

Why this is different

Every dating app promises connection.
We actually create it.

Every other dating app

×
Swipe on photos. Chat for weeks. Meet for coffee. Realize there's nothing there.
×
Both people sit across a table performing a job interview about their lives.
×
You leave knowing their resume but not their personality.

ConnectAndDo

✓
Match. Pick an activity. Show up the same week. Know if there's chemistry in the first 10 minutes.
✓
Shared adrenaline creates real bonds. You see how someone handles a challenge, not a script.
✓
You leave with a story, a sweat, and an honest read on whether you want date two.

Your next first date
should be unforgettable.

ConnectAndDo is building the dating app NYC deserves. One where first dates are stories worth telling, not obligations to survive.

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